March 18th: A few words of advice to someone younger

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How apt that a prompt regarding age would present itself on my birthday. Alas.
Advice I would give to someone younger is to care less about the opinions of others. This cannot be emphasised enough. I used to (and sometimes still) tread so carefully through life worrying about what others think about me that I forgot to actually live. Wear what you want, do what you want, say what you want, once you are being true to yourself. Do not blindly follow anyone anywhere. Do not censor yourself if you feel you have something to share. Do not let someone else rob your happiness.
There are many things I regret as I look back on my younger years. I invested too much time in the wrong people, and failed to show the right people how much I truly cared about them. Spend quality time with those who have shown you time and time again that they genuinely care about you, and whatever you do, don't let them down.
The morbid but honest truth is that you are going to die some day. Don't look back on your life with any 'what-ifs' or 'if-onlys'. It's not worth it. Go out there and be the shining star you truly are.

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